We’ve put together a collection of fun questions to ask your fiance. Ask them all at once or space them out over a number of days. You’ll be surprised at how much there is to learn about one another.
Easy Questions to Start Off
- What’s your zodiac?
- Do you have a lucky number?
- Can you juggle?
- What’s the best party you’ve ever been to?
- What is your least favorite household chore?
- A hug or a kiss – what’s better?
- Have you ever built a snowman?
- Do you believe in ghosts?
- What is your idea of fun?
- If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life – what would you choose?
Questions about Your Fiance
- What’s your favorite physical feature of yourself?
- What’s the happiest you’ve ever been in your life?
- Would you consider yourself an optimist, a pessimist or a realist?
- What would you say is your most unique trait?
- Do you ever compare yourself to other guys/girls?
- What’s the best way to cheer you up when you’re having a bad day?
- Other than our relationship, what’s the greatest thing that has happened in your life?
- If you could turn back time, just once, what one thing in your life would you change?
- Do you have a hidden talent?
- Are you more care-free or more of a worrier?
Questions to Get to Know Your Fiance’s Family
- What’s your favorite memory with your mom?
- Which parent did you go to when you needed advise?
- Would you say you are more like your mom or dad?
- Who is your favorite relative (not counting immediate family)?
- What’s your funniest family memory?
- Do you know your family’s heritage?
- How often do you like to visit your family?
- Which holidays are most important in your family?
- Do you have any family traditions that you want to continue on?
- Did you ever meet any of your great grandparents?
Questions to Get to Know Your Fiance’s Interests
- Do you have a favorite book?
- What’s your favorite song of all time?
- Which new thing would you want to try, if you had to pick a new hobby?
- What is your favorite movie of all time?
- Would you rather spend a week at a beachside cottage or a mountaintop cabin?
- Do you have any places you really want to travel?
- What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever done?
- How would you describe the perfect day off?
- Sweet or Salty?
- If you could restart your career tomorrow to anything you want – what would you do?
Questions to Get to Know Your Fiance’s Childhood
- Did you have any pets growing up?
- What was your favorite childhood tv show or movie?
- As a child did you collect something?
- What’s your earliest childhood memory?
- Did you have a favorite class in high school?
- Did you ever rebel against your parents as a teen?
- What did you want to be as a kid?
- Who was your childhood hero?
- How old were you when you stopped believing in Santa?
- Did you have an imaginary friend?
Questions about Your Relationship
- Do you have a favorite memory of us?
- What’s your favorite place we’ve visited together?
- When did you first know that you loved me?
- What is one thing I could do to make you trust me even more?
- Was there one thing that I did last week that impressed you?
- Do you have any deal-breakers that would make you reconsider our relationship?
- Do you ever wish I could read your mind? When?
- What’s the best thing about our relationship?
- What makes you feel the most loved?
- What is the one thing in our relationship you think we need more of?
Planning a Future Together
- What did you learn from your parent’s marriage?
- Do you believe in saving for retirement?
- Do you imagine having kids some day? If yes, how long do you want to wait after marriage?
- What are three values you would want our kids to have?
- What do you want to do once you retire?
- In ten years, where do you want to be living?
- What’s one thing that you want to accomplish in the next five years?
- If we ever needed to – would you be willing to go to couples therapy?
- How would you describe your dream home?
- What’s your idea of the perfect family vacation?
Fun Questions to Ask Your Fiance
- What food reminds you of me?
- What laws would you make if you were a powerful world ruler?
- If you were a super hero – what would your name be? What would be your power? Your outfit?
- What would you do if you won a lottery jackpot?
- If you were a cup – what would you be filled with?
- In a movie about your life, what songs would you put on the soundtrack?
- What fairytale character do you associate with?
- If you had to go on a reality tv show, which one would you choose?
- Can you name all 50 US states?
- What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
Thought Provoking Questions for your Fiance
- If our home caught fire and people and pets were safe – what three items would you take?
- If you could send a 30 second message to the whole world, what would you say?
- Would you rather know or not know the time and place you will die?
- If you could have witnessed one event in the Bible or history, what one would you choose?
- Is it better to know a little about a lot of things or a lot about a few things?
- What would you do different if you knew no one would judge you?
- When you get to heaven and God says “why should I let you in”, what’s your answer?
- If you could know the truth to just one question – what question would it be?
- Would you rather be rich and miserable or poor and happy?
- How will humankind go extinct?
What does your fiance think about you?
- Is there anything that I do that is predictable?
- Do you consider me an introvert or an extrovert?
- What’s a question that you’ve never asked me before?
- What’s my best physical feature?
- If you could change one thing that I do – what would it be?
- What’s your favorite memory with me?
- What has impressed you most about me lately?
- Do I tell you that I love you enough?
- What is your idea of a romantic night with me?
- What are your three favorite things about me?
Want to make these fun questions to ask your fiance even more fun? For a great stay-at-home date idea, write these questions on Jenga pieces or on the back of puzzle pieces and answer them as you play.
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